I keep telling people, "Don't sleep on soft skills". I guarantee you that if you think of problems you have at work and at home, they all go back to lack of soft skills. Am I right?
Seth Godin refers to soft skills as "Real Skills" and for good reason. Real skills are what people notice and remember about you. They are what make you...you.
Here’s a partial list of real skills that make a measurable difference at work and at home:
- The ability to start and stop quickly
- Assertiveness on behalf of ideas that matter
- Charisma and the skill to influence others
- Coach-ability and the desire to coach others
- Compassion for those in need
- Creativity in the face of challenges
- Critical thinking instead of mere compliance
- Decision making with effectiveness
- Dispute resolution skills
- Emotional intelligence
- Empathy for customers, co-workers and vendors
- Facilitation of discussion
- Flexibility
- Honesty
- Influence
- Interpersonal skills
- Leadership
- Managing up
- Problem-solving
- Resilience
- Self-confidence
- Storytelling
- Strategic thinking
- Stress management
- Team building
- Tolerance of change and uncertainty
To develop these skills you must practice again and again over time. If you can develop these skill in a way that impacts other people in a positive and influential way...you have it made in the shade. Here's an ideal of how much monetary gain these skills (and other) can offer:
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